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2009/10/19

Mattel Party on the Pier

On Saturday, we had the privilege of being invited to the Mattel Party on the Pier (in Santa Monica).   This is a very important fund-raiser for Mattel Children's Hospital  at UCLA.  The Santa Monica Pier reminds me a lot of the Altamont Fair in Albany County, N.Y. as it was in the 1950s.   Rides, booths of games, food.   We had ride passes, so Aurelia and her friend Garrett rode and rode and rode.  That left Grammy free to play the games.  I'm no better at them now than I was back when, but everyone won everytime at these games.  PLUS, and this is the biggie:  Mattell had replaced all the prizes with their own toys.  You should see the wonderful toys I won!!   Aurelia, Diana, and I sorted through them once we were home.  Aurelia kept three; the rest will be donated to the toy closet at their temple for distribution to the needy.
 
The main fund-rasiing event was a silent auction with some amazing items.   The auction raised about $600,000.  Larry King and his wife were among the celebrity sponsors, and it was fun to see them in person.  There were quite a few famous people there, just mingling in with the rest of us and a lot of media folks with cameras.   So, a big, big deal...and how lucky we were to be able to attend.   Our thanks to Di's friend Deidre for the tickets.
2009/10/17

Ok, they do movies better out here

The movie we saw this morning, "Tinker Bell's Treasure,"  was, well, a movie.   But the movie experience:  WOW!   They really do do it better in LA.   The movie was shown at El Capitan Theater.  This is one of the very old, ornate theaters in Hollywood, right in the middle of the walk of fame..you know,  the sidewalk with all the stars on it.  Ron Howard's star, in fact, was right outside the box office.   Inside, the theater is gorgeous, and the "Mighty Wurlitzer" was being played by an excellent organist.   Just before the movie started, the curtain lit up showing an enormous peacock.  The curtain was raised...and out came Tinker Bell, live and dancing.   I hadn't realized she was Celtic, but probably I should have guessed from the green outfit.  At any rate, she did some Irish step dancing to Celtic music.

We had all been issued 3-D glasses on the way in for the previews.  I haven't seen a 3-D movie since the '50s, but I think I may try one.  Snowflakes seemed to be falling right on us, way out there in the theater.  Magical.

Most of the little girls in attendance were wearing Tinker Bell costumes, or at least were dressed like fairies, as was our girl.   Altogether, a most enjoyable morning, to my shock and delight.
2009/10/16

Entering the last week of my visit

Only one week more  in my LA visit.; one more opera class to attend;  seven more breakfasts with Aurelia; and then I'm off to Michigan.  It's warm again out here, so I'll be out walking again.
 
Then, tomorrow we are going to a movie in the morning, and I'll be babysitting at night while Di and Dave attend the opera..."Sigfried," I think.
 
On Sunday, Aurelia and I will take the bus to the Santa Monica Library to return some videos.  And so on with the little things that make our time together fun.
2009/10/13

Quiet on the western front

All is quiet in LA. While Aurelia was in school yesterday,  Di and I went to LACMA, the LA art museum.  We had hope to see the Pompeii exhibit, but it had ended last week.  Darn.   We just wandered around this beautiful building instead, taking in the Japanese exhibit first, then the Korean.  The new entrance to the building is interesting.  One walks by a sculpture of old street lights.   There are probably 100 of them, in nice neat rows, tallest in the middle.  I'd like to see it at night all ablaze.

Today there is nothing on my schedule.  I may just read, but probably will run down to the mall and try one more time for a decent pair of black slacks that fit well.   The sales tax out here is 9%, so it's actually better for me to shop at home where it's only 6%.   I'm starting to get a little homesick.  I annoy myself with that because I really like being out here, especially to have the time with Aurelia, who grows and changes right before my eyes.   But then,  I have family in MI, too, and so many friends.   It's a bit schizophrenic, this living two separate lives.   In some ways it's nice, in that I get to have a wider range of experiences, but there is a certain fracturing quality to it, too.  Some people are just never satisfied!!!    But I do try to be, making daily mental adjustments, giving myself constant reminders that we set our mood and our quality of life depends upon that.  

Aurelia and I had a large breakfast together today:  oatmeal AND Rice Krispies, yogurt, toast, and an apple.   Then we raced upstairs to play with the little puppet theater.  This is actually a book, "Fairy Tale Theater, which has small puppets on sticks and pages that pop up into small theaters.  There are three storeis,  "Three Little Pigs,"   "Cinderella,"  and "Little Red Riding Hood."   We take turns being the various characters and have great fun.

2009/10/11

Visiting Seal Beach

On Saturday, Diana, Dave, Aurelia and I drove down to Long Beach for lunch with Annie, Todd, AJ, and Kara, the last of whom is Aurelia's special same-age friend.   Tom and Barb (Annie's mom) were there, too. Annie prepared a wonderful lunch, and we were able to see their beautiful new house, so that was very enjoyable.   Afterwards I went to Tom and Barb's home a few miles away in Seal Beach.  This is a delightful, somewhat old-fashioned beach town.  They live just one block from the business district with all the cute little shops and restaurants, so we walked down for dinner and then again for breakfast, because yes, I spent the night.  This was a special treat as I had thought once Barb moved away, I might not be able to see her again.  Turns out that Seal Beach is only about an hour's drive, sometimes less.  That's not so bad at all. 

Barbara has some health issues, so moving to Orange County where her mother and siblings live, plus two of her three daughters; five of the grandchildren is a thrill for her. She just wants to be surrounded by family, by those who love her most, and the move was with this in mind. 

It was an intensely social time for two days, so I was exhausted when I got back to LA.  Aurelia therapy was just what I needed...and found in the form of a church carnival just down the street.  We had a great time on the rides; finished off with a snow cone, and made it home just as darkness settled in.   I feel totally refreshed.    
2009/10/08

Day sixteen

Today is day 16 of my visit, and that's the half-way mark.  It's flown by.  Yesterday's opera class was about tenors.  Mr. Schub played a recording of Caruso from 1903, which is the year Caruso made his debut in America.  What a powerful and beautiful voice.  Apparently, before Caruso, tenors sang more in falsetto for the high notes.  Caruso changed all that, and tenors as a group have never looked back.

Aurelia is back to school, although she still has a little bit of a cough.  We have plans to watch a video after school.  It is due back at the library today, so we'll return it afterwards.    I'm preparing for my weekend in Seal Beach.  Can't remember the last time I had a 'sleepover.'   LOL

My friends Pam and Geoff, who now live in NC, will be staying at my house for an indefinite period.   One of their elderly friends just died and they are the people with power-of-attorney, so need to take care of everything.   I like having my house used in my absence.  Houses hate being empty.  So this works out well for them and me.

Noel reports that they are back home from their vacation in Williamsburg.  I haven't heard all the details yet, but it sounds like they had a great time.  Now that Noel is home-schooling, it's a lot easier to plan trips at times when sites are not so crowded.

Today I went for a fairly long walk in Westwood Village, an area right next to the main UCLA campus.  Then I was tired, so I hopped on a Big Blue Bus for the return trip.  As if that were not lazy enough, I just woke up from a short nap!  Yikes,  how old am I ???
2009/10/05

It's always something with kids

Aurelia is still sick with a cold;  Di kept her out of school today, and we missed the dinner Saturday night also.  Di is still coughing,too.   I am keeping my fingers crossed and using lots of disinfectant.  Sigh.

Anyway,  tonight she (Di) and Dave are going out to dinner and I'm babysitting.  Aurelia and I are planning to watch "Sleeping Beauty'........again!  LOL   Then she wants to play with puppets.  Sounds like a plan to me.  She took a long nap this afternoon, and since she rarely naps,  I have a feeling bedtime will be much later than usual.   Works for me....it's not like I have anything better to do!

I walked around the neighborhood today for exercise, then stopped in the Mystery Book Store.  They had a shelf of old books for only $2.00 each, so I bought a couple.   These mysteries are quick reads, so I never seem to have enough books to last the whole visit.  And I really can't buy that many new books, so this was a nice find.
2009/10/01

Busy days

I've had a couple of busy days.  Yesterday was class #2, and we learned about the various soprano voices in opera.  The instructor played many clips from operas, which is a perfect way to illustrate his points.   He played a wonderful performance by Beverly Sills from the Ed Sullivan Show.  I remember seeing that show, waaaay back when.   What a gorgeous person, in every way. 

Today, Diana and I went to a taping of the Craig Ferguson Show.  This just seemed to be a totally Hollywood experience; very enjoyable.   I was surprised by how small the studio is...only 108 seats.   We were put in the front row, and it was pretty exciting to be so close to the star. Of course we had strict instructions about the level of applause and cheering we were to do.  And we did it, just as we were told!   Anyway, it was  lots of fun...and a new experience for me, which I always like.  It's not like I'm ever going to climb the Alps or go skydiving, so I really appreciate these lesser experiences when they come my way.  Keeps the blood circulating.

Tomorrow night we are all going to a party at some of Di's former neighbors'.   I have met these people several times and enjoy their company immensely, so I'm looking forward to the evening with them.



 

2009/09/29

If it's yellow...

If it's yellow, let it mellow; if it's brown, flush it down.  That is the flushing guide for drought-stricken southern California.   Big adjustment for a midwesterner who rarely experiences even a dry spell, let alone an actual drought.  

Other than that, the visit is a delight.  Aurelia and I have taken the bus twice since my last entry:  once to the bookstore and mall; then today, to the Santa Monica library.   She sang "It's a Small World" the whole way on the bus...what a hoot!

Mostly we have quiet activities here, which suits me very well.  I get out for a long walk every day; I'm reading a lot; and I've actually gone shopping twice...and believe it or not...I bought a sweater and a tee on sale at Talbott's yesterday.  Those of you who have shopped with me know how unusual it is for me to actually buy anything.   My wardrobe, sadly, is inadequate for my social life here.  I had brought some of my LA clothes back for the trip to Paris in May, and then I couldn't remember which ones, so I brought the wrong things back.   Annoying, but i guess there are worst things than shopping.

Tomorrow is class # two, and I can't wait.



2009/09/27

So far

So far, I have neglected to take any photos;  so far, I have not managed to take a bus ride with Aurelia; so far, I have not even called my friend Barb.   And yes, I seem to be busy.  Hmmm.   Am I just finding new ways to waste time??  For starters,I am managing to get my 10,000 steps a day, mostly by walking in the morning.  I'm reading a lot;  always having breakfast with Aurelia of course, which is a lovely way to start any day.   The heat is ennervating, so it's not quite as much fun to be outdoors.  Today is supposed to be better.  Aurelia has a birthday party this a.m.   We may take the bus to the bookstore this afternoon.  
 
Last night I went to a movie and dinner with my friend Ellin.   And of course there is my Wednesday class   And this is the week we (Di and me) are going to a taping  of the Craig Furgeson show.   TOnight I will babysit while Dave and Diana go to a special holiday service at temple.
 
 
2009/09/24

The LA visit begins

      Southwest once again outdid itself on the flight to LA, arriving 35 minutes early!  Di picked Aurelia up early from preschool so they could both be at the airport.   Having seen Aurelia so recently made our transition very easy.   Often it takes us a couple of days to fall back into our comfort zone together, but not this time.  We were about half way home when A asked if I had brought her Alice socks.  As you know, I had, so I pulled them out and she selected her favorites.   And they do look lovely with the new Alice shoes.  I had assumed these were simply "Mary Janes", but they are actually shoes from the Disney store, so quite literally Alice shoes. 
     My "What's so Grand About Opera" class had its first meeting yesterday.  The instructor, Earl Schub, was once with the Lyric Opera in Chicago as artistic director.  You can imagine the stories he has about visiting stars.   Our first class was a detailed description of the differences in voices, including how a pop singer's voice is differently used than an opera singer's.   It was very interesting.   Earl played lots of DVDs of clips from operas, and the class just flew by.
     It is very, very warm in LA.  We'll all be glad when the temps start dropping in the next few days.   In the meantime, it' s nice to jump in the pool in late afternoon.
2009/09/22

Travel day

   I'm chatting with Dan in IM with one hand and writing a blog with the other...more or less.  I'm packed; have just a couple of chores to do, then I'll be ready for my 8:20 pick up by Noel.
   The weekend was so nice.  The Morton House, a local museum, hosted a full day of events on Sunday.  New this year was an appearance by the 102nd Colored Regiment from Detroit.  These are re-enactors of a Civil War Unit.   They gave a talk first, which was very interesting.   Then everyone trooped on down to the cemetery to look at the very old graves and hear stories about various persons from our local past.  Morton House board members dressed in period costume, adding a nice touch.    In the evening, two actors portraying Abe and Mary Todd Lincoln read the Lincoln letters.   Altogether a very satisfying day.
    Anyway, lots of little odds and ends to attend to here;  I'll post from LA.
2009/09/19

Poking around downtown St. Joe

     Today I went to St. Joseph to walk, take photos of the new fountain, and shop at the farmers' market.  What a great little town.  I've posted a couple pictures so you can see for yourself.    Fortunately for all of us on the western side of Michigan, hundreds, maybe thousands?..one can only hope, of tourists think we are a great vacation spot.   The unemployment rate here is still highest in the nation.   I had hoped for better, but the newspapers this morning were full of statistics, and there we were, right at the top of the list.  Sigh.   Without tourism, we'd be sunk.
     So, if you are looking for a wonderful vacation spot, come on over from Chicago, or up from Indiana.  It's a pleasant drive, and we love our visitors.
 
     I'm still in the throes of trip preparation.  There was a side trip to find "Alice" socks...a request from Diana...and described as a dire need.   Guess who has new "Alice" shoes, and MUST have those little white socks with the lace trim.  LOL   I had given her a pair a year or two ago, and she wouldn't even think about wearing them, but now she likes socks, and apparently couldn't find that pair, so SOS to Grammy.  Of course I found them...four different variations on the theme, in fact.  I can't remember exactly which ones I bought before, so I got them all.   They are now in the carry-on with the six books and two pairs of shoes.   This is going to be one overstuffed bag. 
 
     Well, let's see now: 
 
Alert the neighbors that I'll be gone:  check
Cover the air conditioner:  check
Get cash for the trip:  check
Have lunch with all my friends before I leave:  check    (still one to go;  I'll meet Pat for lunch on Monday.)
Get hair cut and colored:  check
Pay bills:  check
 
You'd think I was going to be gone a year!
2009/09/16

Life hums along

      The furnace guy is here at the moment for the fall tune-up; he had to reschedule from yesterday.  No problem, as I'm usually here anyway.  I've been cleaning bathrooms...not too exciting a way to start the day, but it's done now, so that always feels good.
      I have a couple of bills to pay, then mail will be forwarded to LA on a weekly basis.  I really like that premium mail forwarding service of the Post Office.   They forward every Tuesday, and I receive a manilla envelope on Friday or Saturday with the entire week's mail.  Convenient, and it prevents me from having to learn how to pay my bills on line.  My girls all do that, but I haven't worked my way up to it yet.   I feel like there's already too much info about me online and am reluctant to add more.   Old, yes I know.
     My library books and videos have all been returned leaving me with nothing to read at the moment.  Yikes.   So, it's off to Mr. Jack's Paperbacks today to pick up some travel books for $1.00 each.  Since I don't have a library card in LA, I tend to buy books, far too many books, and I'd prefer not to have a pile of $21.00 books that I only wanted to read once anyway.  I've been giving them to Di's friends, donating them to the Y, etc.   Still, I'd prefer not to spend the money at all.
    
2009/09/14

Countdown week

     It's the countdown for my next trip to LA, which will happen next week.   Mail forwarding arranged:  CHECK;  housecare arranged:  CHECK;  transportation to the bus stop arranged:  CHECK; and on and on.   It's a big deal leaving town for more than a week, and this trip will be almost five.  So I'm working my way through my list.  Tomorrow the furnace guys come for the yearly tuneup, so that will be out of the way;  I'm getting my hair done on Friday.  I'm still sorting through clothes to decide what to bring...it's only a carry-on, so not much, but there are things I need to bring back to my LA closet that I had picked up there for the trip to Paris in May.  I'm also trying to see as many of my friends as possible before I leave.   These long trips put a change in their schedules as much as mine, especially those with whom I lunch every week.
     I just picked up an email from Diana saying she has arranged tickets for the Craig Ferguson show one afternoon.  I'm a huge fan of Craig...a truly silly, entertaining fellow.  Oh sure, he's on at 12:30 a.m., but some nights I'm not sleepy yet, so I watch.  And I'm always glad when I do, as he never fails to get me laughing my head off.
     Aurelia and I chatted on Skype a couple of days ago; she looked truly delighted when I said I'd be coming to visit her soon.  We discussed breakfast foods!  LOL   Grammy and Aurelia know what's important:  starting the day off right, starting the day off together.
     Today I have some errands to run and some cleaning to do....I get so bored with cleaning, don't you?  Same old chores, same, same, same.  My friend Jane has just hired a cleaning lady;  Joyce also has one.  My budget, sadly, won't stretch for it, but then, I really do need the exercise, so I should be glad, right?   Have to finish these library books and videos and return them.  That was just a random thought that popped into my head; better add it to the list.
2009/09/11

A memory and a visit

     I read in the New York Times this morning that the Museum of Modern Art in NY City was rehanging their three Monet "water lily" paintings.  I saw those paintings at the MOMA in August, 2001, when I was visiting Christina.   During that trip, Christina walked me along her daily running route...down along the Hudson River, then through the space between the Trade Center Towers.   We went to the cafe in there, and walked in the Tower Gardens.   Less that a month later, we had "9/11."   Like everyone, I was shocked, totally and completely shocked.  I was also worried half sick, because Christina used to run right through there around 9:00 a.m.  It was hours before I was able to reach her on her cell phone.   By what to me is truly a miracle, she had been caring for a sick friend the previous night, so she had not been in her own neighborhood for her morning run.   I just cried with relief.   Her apartment was down in the Soho area then, so she was within the roped off area, and what a dreadful hassle that was, just getting into and out of her neighborhood every day.   Still,  compared to what could have been...and what was for so very many... this inconvenience was nothing.
 
    Now on to the visit.   Grant, Susan and eleven-month old Luke, plus Greg, visited today.   These (Greg and Grant) are Oscar's eldest and youngest sons.  Noel joined us, as did our mutual friends, Pat and Pete M.   It was a lovely time, and what a baby.  I'll post photos tomorrow so you can see for yourself how cute he is.  This was my first chance to meet Luke.  Usually the boys are only in town twice a year, and last Christmas they skipped because of Luke's birth.  I was thrilled they came to see me.   After all, they were grown and gone years, decades even, before I married Oscar, so I'm hardly a step-mother to them.   But they told Luke I was "Grammy," so I am very happy.  
2009/09/09

Back to normal, whatever that is

     Dan and Debbie hit the road at 8:30 a.m. yesterday.  They called at 10:00 p.m. to say they were almost home.  Whew.  That was a seriously long day for them.   Reminds me why I fly everyplace now.   My own day was considerably easier than theirs.   I returned some library books, checked out a couple more, and discovered a new (to me) video series, "Rosemary and Thyme,"  which is a detective show featuring two women who garden as a profession and solve crimes on the side.  I watched the first video (3 episodes) last night.   Charming...and I have two more videos checked out.  That should take me through another week of NOTHING being on television.   What a wasteland in the summertime.   Although, I just saw an advert for the last season of "Robin Hood" on BBCA.  It begins this Saturday night.  I have really enjoyed that series, so I'm looking forward to it starting up again.
 
     Yesterday I mostly read,  did the tiniest amount of housework imagineable, and relaxed.  Today, i suppose I should truly clean, and I might.  Joyce and I are meeting for Chinese, then attending a barbershop choir concert at the library.  Tomorrow I'll have lunch with Jane, and of course, my daily walks with Cheryl will resume this morning at 8:00.   In other words, my life is very quiet once again.   The weekend was wonderful, though.  D & D are easy houseguests.  They eat everything, are amendable to virtually any activity, and they don't mind some quiet time when we all just rest on our own for a few hours.  Perfect, in other words!
2009/09/07

Enjoying our visit

     Dan and Deb arrived safely; we had a leisurely dinner; Noel stopped by to say hello; and that took care of Friday.  On Saturday, we headed into town to see the new fountain, (it's wonderful),to tour the carousel and museum that will open in January, and to walk out on the pier.  To our surprise, the boats from Chicago were just arriving.  It had been an 18 hour sail, and they looked pretty tired.  What a beautiful sight those boats are, though.   We grabbed lunch at the train station pizza joint, then came home to rest for a while.
     Saturday evening we ate dinner at home, then watched the movie, "Good night and good luck," which I had rented from the library.   We all enjoyed that very much, and it gave us a good excuse to just sit still for a bit.   We went back into town after dark to see the fountain with its lights.  Altogether a most satisfying day.
     Sunday found us picnicing at the beach and just relaxing again.  We swam at Noel's in the afternoon, then had dinner there.  Now it is Monday a.m., and Dan and I...ever the early-birds--are on our separate computers down here in the office.  I thought I'd better catch up this blog before I totally forgot what we've been doing.  NO, I am not losing it....or at least not too badly....but when one is scooting here and there, it's hard to remember it all.   Anyway, I'm sticking with that.
     Just remembered that the last thing we did yesterday was head into St. Joseph to watch the fireworks over the lake.  It's our traditional way to ring out the end of summer, so a bittersweet occasion.   They are lovely, though, whenever they are shown.
     Today Noel is taking us for a private tour of the Morton House
2009/09/04

On their way

     I've just been IM chatting with Dan, who is on his laptop in Parkersburg, WV.  I think that's about half way here.  At any rate, I'm expecting them in time for supper.  And that supper will be a chicken stir fry with balsamic rice.   Very healthy; healthy, that is, until we get to dessert...Debbie appears to have made a cake, and she is a wonderful baker, so I know I'm going to love it.
     It will be a quietly busy weekend.  Not only will the 140 sailboats of the regatta be here, but St. Joe is opening a new water feature down below the bluff, half way to the beach.   I've walked by it twice, and it looks beautiful.   Grand opening is tomorrow, so by the time we make it down there, the waters should be dancing.  There are also preview tours of our wonderful new carousel, ballroom, and kids' museum.   All that space below the bluff has just been vacant land for the 23 years I've been here.  I don't know what has finally prompted a change, but it's looking to be a good one.
     Today I need to return some library books and then hit the local produce stand for the veggies I'll need for dinner.  I'm really looking forward to Dan and Deb's visit.  We always find it easy to just relax together...a real vacationy type of vacation.
    
2009/09/01

Progress report

     Living, family, dining, guest, and my rooms are clean!!!   Kitchen and kiddie bed/playroom are better, but not quite there yet.  Office just needs the floor swept.  Patio toys are put away, except the picnic table which I'm leaving out for the impending visit of Grant's ten-month-old son, Luke, who will be here on the 11th.  (Grant is Oscar's  youngest son.)    Bathrooms will be cleaned on Thursday, and then I'm ready for the weekend.   Sometime during the week I'll do a serious grocery shop; I'm mentally thinking through menus now.  
     This weekend is the tri-state regatta in St. Joe.  This is a sailboat race that originates in Chicago;  sails overnight Friday to St. Joe; then continues on Sunday to Michigan City, Indiana.   While the boats are here, they park (moor?) in the St. Joseph River, and hundreds of people walk down to see them. Then, on Sunday, we flock to the pier to watch them motor down the river and then unfurl their sails when they get to the lake.  It's a great sight, and I'm looking forward to sharing it with Debbie and Dan.
     Their request for this visit is 'rest.'  So to that end, I am planning quiet activities.... maybe a swim and Noel's;  some beach walking, maybe a meal out, maybe just quiet meals here.   The fellowship together is the thing;  it's the thing for all visits, actually.  Activities of any kind are the added extra.  So we'll drink some wine and chill out together.